This blog is the start of another book for the SOL website. This Book is anticipated to have three sections, our early years, the busy years and the retirement years. In the early years we will explore how the child uses energy in developing their life themes. It is basically about your inner child which are experiences that you have that are not consciously acknowledged or should we say understand. Examples of this are sexual abuse, religious teachings and how your parents relate to you through components of love and understanding.

These inner child experiences pretty much stay with you during your whole life and how you relate to other people are often affected strongly by the things that happen to you. If your parents love you, you have a good chance to deal with many positive things in life, but if they constantly required to do things or don’t approve of what you do. It will be hard forever. How you eventually deal with it, is your learning lessons.

The Busy Years and the Flow of 11:11

In the busy years, which we categorize as the period from when your hormone starts making you a man or a women through emotion, we will explore how you can integrate you inner child in with what you are facing. We will give you the main secret of success which is the flow of energy in the intentional, mental, emotional and physical domains. We call it love, light, life and living and abbreviate it as 11:11. We have written a book, which is free on the website and is the Diamond of Consciousness. By integrating 11:11 in with your inner child is the essence the busy years.

The Retirement Years and the Turn Toward Spirit

In the retirement years, which are the years after you have developed your ego, individualization some people call it, profession and raised children, if that was your chose. This includes the views that you have about yourself after you have accomplished many of the themes in your life for your soul. It is fascinating to deal with death and what you have accomplished, if anything throughout your life. We look at the friends that you meet to the resulting family dynamics that you have passed on to your children and others. We will explore how people often begin exploring spirituality and start believing in the individual and principles of Jesus in life after death.

Exploring the Body in the Early Years

In the early years, the child explores their body and often plays sports and some choose to excel in one or another, often influenced by parents such as sports and then they have to start experimenting with natures set of hormones that have been given to them. Often sex plays a big role, as biologically we have mating tendencies. Rituals of dating and love making often prevail until one graduates from high school or college and finds a career to earn money.

Rites of Passage Through the Stages of Life

In my growing up, people often categorized life into multiple parts, often associated to different stages of one’s life like marriage, family, working, children growing up and then having your children leave to start their own lives causing an empty house feeling this frequently causes a desire to change for what you have been doing because for much of your life as you often sacrificed for your children’s well being. For example, staying in your house, sending them to school and celebrating their achievements.Therapists often call it your Rites of Passages, and there are many from marriage, getting a job, to working at your carefree, to having a family.

Dividing Life by Energy and Consciousness

We divide things differently using your energy and levels of consciousness. This is the essence of spirituality which you often focus on in the third stage of life. The first stage is given to you by your parents and growing experiences, the second is taking these experiences and creating your material life and the third is your spiritual life. Many of our themes have been discussed in the numerous blogs on thestaroflight.com and now we are putting them together is a meaning way. Subsequent blogs will deal with these three issues, which we all deal with in one form or another.